In the name of Allah, Most Merciful, Most Compassionate; blessings and peace be upon Prophet Muhammad s.a.w.
Reflection
"Anyone who obeys the Messenger has obeyed God..." (Nisaa 4:80)
Reflection
"Anyone who obeys the Messenger has obeyed God..." (Nisaa 4:80)
CIKGU Azizan Manap, 44, of Nilai is nowadays in the limelight...his 'hard' way in disciplining one of his pupils reminded me of this 'hadith' - Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. said: “Order your children to perform prayer when they are seven years old and beat (cane) them (for neglecting it) when they are ten.” (Al-Albaani)
Scholars said the Prophet s.a.w. did not order beating children who neglect prayers before the age of ten, though, he ordered the parent to command his children to perform the prayers when they are seven.
This means that there are three years left between the two stages. The Prophet s.a.w. delayed using beating for three years and only allowed the parent to verbally direct and discipline during this period. He considered the negative consequences of beating that should be avoided by those who assume the upbringing of children.
They said if the parent keeps ordering his child to perform the prayers for three years and the child keeps refusing, this means that he is stubborn and therefore he deserves beating. This wise approach of using beating leads to positive results, provided that it is not severe. That is because severe beating results in negative consequences. The child feels that the one who beats him hates him and uses beating as a means of revenge, not of discipline and upbringing.
An American Muslim scholar, Sheikh Abdilbary Yahya, said teachers of Islam should refrain from actions that go against the teachings of Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. in order to keep the faith of their flock strong. Teachers should emulate the Prophet’s way characterized by love and wisdom.
He said Prophet Muhammad s.a.w. was a successful teacher because he showed respect and love for his students. He was kind, showed humility, was merciful, desired best results from his listeners, used wisdom in his messages and did not scold or cane anyone, but treated everyone as “best friend (and) companion.”
Thus teaching is an important, respected and well-regarded profession in every society and community. People from all walks of life find it professionally and personally a well-rewarding career. It is an exciting and challenging career too...in our society the respect towards teachers is for life - they say once a teacher, always be a teacher. A retired teacher is still called a 'cikgu' and command high respect among the people.
Now let us look at Cikgu Azizan's case. On Tuesday (Dec 19) this 'cikgu' who was facing a charge of causing hurt to his student was given a discharge not amounting to acquittal by the magistrate's court in Seremban.
Magistrate Mohd Zaki Abdul Rahim delivered judgement after the prosecution told the court that they wished to withdraw the case. Cikgu Azizan, had on Oct 31 claimed trial to a charge of allegedly slapping a male pupil aged 11 for indiscipline, which including being involved in glue-sniffing, bullying and playing truant.
This is what the Prophet s.a.w. used to tell his Companions to do: “Convey (knowledge) from me even if it is just one aayah…” (Bukhari). This is because whether or not a person is guided may depend on just one word of this aayah which will touch his heart and ignite the spark of faith, so that his heart and life will be illuminated with the light of guidance, and he will be a new man.
Even though a teacher is look upon as the best resource for a child it during his or her growing years, a parent is really the child's first teacher and critical to his or her achievement in life. In fact teaching the family is an obligation which the head of the household (the father) must undertake in obedience to the command of Allah SWT, “O’ you who believe, protect yourself and your families from a Fire (Hell) whose fuel is people and stones…” (Qur’an 66:6)
‘Ali ibn Abi Talib r.a. said: “Teach them (our children) and discipline them” while At-Tabari said: “We must teach our children and wives the religion and goodness, and whatever they need of good manners. If the Messenger of Allah s.a.w. used to urge teaching the female servants, who were slaves, what do you think about your children and wives, who are free?”
Yes, in true sense everybody is a ‘cikgu’ (teacher); a father is a teacher to his wife and children, a boss is a guidance in his or her office; a ‘wakil rakyat’ (people’s representative) is entrusted for the well being of his or her constituents while top leaders are unanswerable to all matters regarding the country and its people.
Thus nobody should uttered damaging words such as 'Kepala bapak kau' (Your father's head) or hash action such as slapping others. Regarding this, the Prophet s.a.w. said: “Each of you is a shepherd, and each of you is responsible for his flock (i.e. those over whom you have authority.” (Bukhari and Muslim)
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